the frogpile

my experiences in the world of online matchmaking

7.26.2005

two down

Turns out I was right about bachelor # 0721-03 from Jefferson, GA - it was not meant to be. He closed me, but I don't remember the reason why. Something pretty generic. I don't think they offer "This chick looks like she can't handle snakes!" as an option, so I'm sure that's why.

I put bachelor # 0721-02 from Tallahassee, FL out of his misery when I got his "Must Haves/Can't Stand" list. Three out of his twenty options (you can pick 10 Must Haves and 10 Can't Stands) concerned sex: on the Must Haves side there were two; "I must have someone who is willing to explore our sexual desires with passion and understanding" and "I must have someone who is mature and experienced as a potential sexual partner and is able to express herself freely." Then on the Can't Stands side, there was "I can't stand someone who does not enjoy having sex on a regular basis." None of these things are bad in and of themselves, but if you have a long list of things to choose from that you must have or can't stand in a potential mate, would you waste three slots on the list with sexual issues? And here's the corker, also on his MH/CS list was this: "I can't stand someone who is overweight," the eHarmony equivalent of "no fat chicks!" Definitely a 3 frog match - I don't know what they were thinking with this one.

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